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Thought of the Day and Book Recommendations

I’ve been having a lot of thoughts lately about my life and my ambitions and my abilities and eventually I’ll probably blog about my conclusions but for now it’s still too swirly in my head to put into coherent thoughts.

So instead, I’ll leave this quote from Rye Barcott’s “It Happened on the Way to War,” which I strongly recommend, especially if you enjoyed Nate Fick’s “One Bullet Away” and/or Eric Greitens’ “The Heart and the Fist.” And if you haven’t read any of them, then I suggest you check them all out. If someone asked me to list off the top 5 books that impacted my life, those 3 would probably all make it on there. But if you’re only going to pick one — this is a hard choice, but Barcott’s book is probably my favorite (which may have something to do with the summer I spent in Kenya).

But I’m getting off topic now.

The quote: “It’s good to help when you can.”

Thoughts on the quote? What books would you put on a list of most influential in your life? Or do you have a favorite quote that really just makes you think?

What I’m Reading

Given that it’s only June and I’ve already read 55 romance novels this year, which is just a few less than I normally read in a YEAR, I decided I needed to make an effort to read some more educational books.

So this is what’s currently in the book queue:

(Would you ever guess that I was an inventory/merchandising supervisor at Borders from that picture? I really can create nice displays when I want to. Really.)

Ok, so that last book isn’t educational, but hey… all work and no play and all that… ;)

What are you reading right now?

Two Book Reviews

I used to do more book reviews when I first started blogging. Now, I keep track of the books I read, but I rarely review them. I like reading other reviews on blogs though and I certainly read enough to make some suggestions, so I think I’ll start back up.

The first book is The Heart and the Fist by Eric Greitens. If you follow me on Twitter, you probably saw one of my three thousand tweets (ok, maybe like two) tweets about it. I have not loved a book this much since I read One Bullet Away by Nathaniel Fick.

Actually, in a lot of ways, the two books are very similar. Both books are about college boys who want to be warriors (and both reference the idea of modern day Spartans and feeling that they were born in the wrong time period) and find themselves drawn to the military. While Fick heads for the Marines, however, and turns his book into a(n awesome) Iraq war memoir, Greitens goes to Navy OCS and then BUD/S to become a SEAL and spends his book wondering about the relationship between force and humanitarian work, between courage and compassion. He comes to the conclusion that simply giving people what they need isn’t enough and that being good requires equals measures of strength and caring.

This philosophy leads him to develop an organization called The Mission Continues, which challenges returning wounded and disabled veterans to overcome their difficulties and use their military experience and leadership abilities to continue serving their communities at home. The Mission Continues website sums it up nicely: “While it is very important to tell our returning veterans ‘thank you’ for their service, we believe that it is also important to tell them ‘we still need you.’” What an amazing idea, right? Now go get this book and read the story of how his philosophy developed. You won’t regret it. And if you do, read it again because you probably missed the point.

The second book is not going to get anyone excited. Well, probably not anyone except for the bookseller who thinks you’re a terrorist for asking for a book about the transfer of bomb technology. It’s Exporting the Bomb by Matthew Kroenig.

The first sections of the book are dedicated to explaining the hypothesis and theory. I’ve never been into theory and research design. On a good day, it makes my eyes glaze over. When I spend the week on a brain candy binge and then pick up a book with sentences such as “To control for potentially confounding factors, I then evaluate the effect of each of the explanatory variables, including both control variables and the cubic splines,” it puts me in a coma. But then I skipped to the end of the theory chapter and got into case studies and came back to life.

The book actually comes from an interesting (and somewhat understudied) aspect of nonproliferation: the supply side. A lot of research has been done on why states pursue nuclear weapons, but not so much on why states with nuclear weapons technology would pass it on to states that don’t already have it. The case studies are much more interesting reading, but you’re still probably not going to want to read this book unless you’re really into nuclear weapons (like me), international security policy (like me), and history (like me). But if you do read it and make it through the research design chapter, don’t try to talk to me about it. I’ll fall asleep before you can say “cubic splines.”

My Addiction

These are the books I read this week. There are currently 3 more sitting on the table next to me.

Oh, and these books? They’re not just any books. They’re ALL romance novels. And they’re all about Navy SEALs.

It’s an addiction.

Luckily, the husband doesn’t mind. But I should probably stop asking him to become a Navy SEAL, especially since I know he can’t (colorblind).

Chiefs ≠ Sergeants

I like to read books about Navy SEALs. (I think I’ve mentioned my unhealthy obsession with Navy SEALs before.) For the most part, I overlook inaccuracies in the same way that I do when I watch Army Wives. These things are for entertainment and not meant to be documentaries. But when authors make little errors that are stupid things that could be easily checked, it annoys me.

Examples:

A Sergeant is the equivalent of a Chief.
No, a Sergeant is the equivalent of a Petty Officer Second Class.

A Senior Chief is the king of Chiefs.
Really? I bet a Master Chief would be surprised to hear that. And if you want to get really technical, there’s only one King of Chiefs and he is the MCPON.

We’ll determine who sleeps on the floor by rank and rating.
Ok, let’s try that. You’re a CDR, I’m a CTI, and he’s an IS. Who gets the floor? Chris says, ‘One of the enlisted people, duh.’ Yes, but which one? Rating is a job. Rate is the enlisted equivalent of rank; only officers have rank. The terms are not interchangeable.

Yes sir, Chief.
Uh, have you ever called a Chief sir? They *hate* that. I called a Chief sir once when I was at OCS [because I had no contacts and could only make out khaki... figured it was better to assume officer since it was at OCS] and was quickly reprimanded and told “I work for a living; don’t call me sir.” So noted.

Anyway, I will get off my soapbox now. These are just basic things that should be caught if you have a military advisor (which this particular author did). I get caught up in the book and then I run into one of those errors and it snaps me back into reality. Way to ruin the book.

This must be how Chris feels when he watches movies about the Navy and says, “That’s not really like that. That could never happen. That’s so not realistic.” I always shush him because he’s interrupting my movie, but I guess those things are interrupting the movie for him too.

So what about you? Do things like that ruin books/tv/movies for you or can you overlook them?

Book Round Up 2010

I forgot what I made my book goal in 2010, but I’m sure that I fell short because I didn’t read more than I did in 2009. Ah well, 114 books is respectable.

[As a sidenote, I have a tendency to buy my books rather than get them from the library, and I'm desperately avoiding doing math to estimate how much money I spent on books in 2010. I do get a lot of them used though, so that's something...]

The Best Books of 2010:

  1. Blind Man’s Bluff
    • This should be of no surprise to anyone, since I love the Cold War, I love Soviet history, and I love submarines. Blind Man’s Bluff is a collection of submarine stories from the Cold War; it’s a super readable book, and some of the stories don’t seem like they could be real. But they are, and that’s what makes it awesome. If you are even mildly interested in submarines or the Cold War, check out this book.
  2. Rizzoli and Isles Series
    • I started reading this series after the show started on TNT. The TV characters have different personalities than they do in the books, and I think I prefer the books. The books are reminiscent of the early Scarpetta series, which means they’re excellent. If you’re into forensics or mysteries, you’ll like this series.
  3. The Search
    • I read bad reviews of this book, but I actually really liked it. Ok, so I love pretty much everything Nora Roberts has ever written, but this book was set in Washington state and the main character was a dog trainer. Oh, and there was a serial killer. That’s pretty much all you need to make me like a book. If you’re not interested in dogs or don’t typically like Nora Roberts, you might not like this one. But I did.
  4. Call Me Mrs. Miracle
    • I love Debbie Macomber Christmas books, so it was pretty much a given I was going to like this one. Christmas in NYC, a boy who lives with his aunt while his dad is deployed, the manager of a department store, and Mrs. Miracle, an angel on Earth to help people at Christmastime. Cheesy? Maybe. Definite fluff, but it’s good for your heart to read fluff once in a while. Especially at Christmas.

The Meh Books of 2010:

  1. The Scarpetta Factor
    • I used to *LOVE* the Scarpetta books, but they’ve gotten too out there and just plain weird. Too many conspiracies, weird connections and drama, and not enough of the forensics and mystery that used to drive her books. I think the last good book in the series was Point of Origin. I don’t know why I’m still reading this series. I guess I just hope they’ll get good again.
  2. Waking Nightmare
    • It takes a lot to make me not like a romance novel where the main characters are law enforcement and one of them is specifically a profiler. This book did it. I didn’t even bother with the other two in the series.

The New Series of 2010:

  1. Eve Duncan
    • I’ve seen these books so many times in stores, but I finally started reading them when I ran out of new books to read. The main character is a forensic sculptor, and the stories are ok… but I have a love/hate relationship with the main character. She’s obsessed with her daughter who was kidnapped and (presumably) killed years and years ago, and every single book somehow involved this fact. Her boyfriend and adopted daughter hover around her like she’s incompetent and act like if someone upsets her, it’s this terrible unforgivable act. I like a stronger lead character (like Eve Dallas! Or Rizzoli!), but I’m still reading the books, so that’s something.
  2. Goldy Schulz
    • The main character is a caterer who is married to a detective who can’t seem to solve any cases without her help. This is another main character who annoys me — she’s super overprotective of her son (to the point that I’m annoyed on his behalf!) and she makes mmm-mmm noises when she eats. Wait, what? Yes. When she tastes food, it’s described as an mmm-mmm noise. Weird. Who does that? But this is another series I’m still reading. You may have noticed that I have a hard time quitting a series once I’ve started… but in my defense, the latest Goldy Schulz book improved her character A LOT and I have hopes that the series is improving as a whole.
  3. Rizzoli and Isles
    • As I already said, they’re reminiscent of early Scarpetta. Female homicide detective (Rizzoli) and female medical examiner (Isles) work together to solve crimes in Boston. Enough said. I love these books.

Books!

Amanda posted this fun little fill in the blanks about books. Anyone who’s been around here for awhile knows that I love books, so this was calling out to me… fill free to snag it if you want to do it too :)

1. My favorite book growing up was:
The Phantom Tollbooth by Norton Juster. It’s still one of my favorites.

2. The funniest book I’ve ever read was:
Life and Times of The Thunderbolt Kid by Bill Bryson is coming to mind, but I feel like I’m forgetting one… hmm. Maybe I’ll come back and edit.

3. The one book that has truly changed my life is:
I’m going to say One Bullet Away by Nate Fick. It was the first military book I read and the book that sparked my interest in military matters.

4. If you’re looking for a real “tear jerker” you should probably read:
Lone Survivor by Marcus Luttrell or Final Salute by Jim Sheeler. Either of them is guaranteed to make you sob.

5. If I could meet any author living or dead I would want to meet:
Does the Pioneer Woman count as an author? If she does, then I pick her. She’d probably make some awesome food and she just seems like a fun person.

6. The next book on my “to read” list is:
Whatever the next book in the Diane Mott Davidson series is…Double Shot , I believe.

7. If I was snowed into remote cabin in the woods and could only choose three books to bring with me I’d bring:
Aiii…. Bet Me by Jennifer Crusie, Mercy by Julie Garwood, and Tears of the Moon by Nora Roberts. Yep, they’re all romance novels… a sampling of my favorites from across the board that I can (and have) read over and over again. It killed me to leave off cowboy books and SEAL books… and the other Nora Roberts trilogies… I reserve the right to change these selections should I ever actually be snowed into a remote cabin. But then again, I’m a speed reader, so 3 books (especially 3 books that I’ve read several times) would probably only keep me busy for about 4 hours anyway…

Books

So I ended 2009 with 116 books read. Not bad… and it confirms my suspicion that I spend entirely too much money on books.

Of those books, my favorites were:

  • Caine Mutiny (Herman Wouk)
    • A surprisingly good–albeit long–read. Captain Queeg is insane. If you’re interested in psychology and the US Navy circa WW2, I’d recommend it.
  • Phantom Tollbooth (Norton Juster)
    • No surprise here. I’ve read this book every year since second grade.
  • Final Salute: A Story of Unfinished Lives (Jim Sheeler)
    • Have you seen Taking Chance? This book is about the same thing and about a hundred times sadder. There’s a picture of a sailor escorting his best friend’s body home that is permanently imprinted on my brain.
  • Fixing Hell (Larry C. James)
    • Written by the Army psychologist sent into Abu Gharib after the scandal broke to find out why and make sure it didn’t happen again. Behavioral psychology and the Army — two of my favorite things.
  • From Baghdad with Love: A Marine, the War, and a Dog Named Lava (Jay Kopelman)
    • Touching… plus the picture of Lava on the cover reminds me of Bones :)

(And as always, I loved everything I read by Nora Roberts, Debbie Macomber, and Linda Lael Miller.)

My least favorites?

  • Julie and Julia (Julie Powell)
    • I’m not opposed to the occasional f-bomb in a book — one of my favorite types of books is military memoirs. I am opposed to dropping it in ever other sentence because you’re not as great a writer as you think are. Plus, the book is supposed to be about cooking, but she manages to drop in criticisms of Republicans about once a page. And not justified criticism, mostly just name calling. Yes Julie, we get it: You hate Republicans. One of the very few books I’ve ever taken back to the store to get my money back. Julie Powell is an immature self centered brat.
  • The Lucy Stone books (Leslie Meier)
    • I love mysteries. I love cheesy mysteries (hello, I read all the Hannah Swensen books!). These books are just… blah. I couldn’t get into them. I couldn’t even get through them when I was in student pool at OCS going through about a book a day and reading anything I could get my hands on to make time pass. I made my way through two and gave up on the series. The stories aren’t very interesting and I can’t stand the main character.

Someone was unoriginal…



… since Schweikart’s book (America’s Victories) came out over two years ago, and Bing West’s book comes out tomorrow, my money’s on West.

While I’m Announcing Movies/Shows…

HBO is finally putting on the miniseries “Generation Kill” (in July). I’ve been waiting for this forever – the trailer looks good, and I really liked the book. The book is written by a Evan Wright, a journalist (of sorts) who embedded with their unit, which was one of the first Marine Recon Units to go into Iraq in 2003.

Here’s the trailer:

Actually more than Generation Kill, I liked Nathaniel Fick’s One Bullet Away, which is a book about the same unit at the same time period (more or less) from the Marines’ point of view instead of a Rolling Stone journalist’s point of view. That’s the book that got me interested in the military to begin with.

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